Came home this evening, message on machine "Fax me the latest amounts from your accounts. The data I have is old" said my lawyer. I leave on Friday, my lawyer leaves the 1st, Dow leave on the 9th. I had sent the quit claims to him to have Jason and Dow sign. Will the settlement be signed before Dow leaves for Australia?
The paper chase is on. I had written to Margaret earlier today that I had wanted my vacation to be a gentle healing of the divorce/process but I didn't think that it would happen. Now it sounds like it may except for the actual physical signatures and visit to the judge.
I do not feel that my lawyer has represented me well. I should not have had any debt from this year and one/half. I am $5000 in debt. Dow lived well at my expense. Dow lived on 100,000 plus. He paid me $6000 in support giving me the high amount of $35, 000. Bah, humbug. He who has the money gets more. Ladies believe me when I say the process is not fair. My lawyer would "compromise" so Dow would sign early as pushed by the judge. Well, I am saying as clearly and as loudly as I can "It doesn't work!" It took a year and 1/2!!!! My lawyer started with 70% of property and $3000 in maintainence. Ha! He let the judge give away my future support while Dow has received two raises since we began the divorce process. I don't get any of his income increases considered in my support. Bah, the law works for those who have money and are willing to lie about their income and expenses.
I truly will be glad when it is over and I can give my life over to God. I am scared financially but I know I will not take money with me. It is what I do with my life that is important. We all die.
Monday, June 23, 2008
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