Money being transferred today

Got a message from my lawyer. Dow's loan for 1/2 the condo has been approved. The company sent the check to my lawyer. My lawyer called me, "The check is too large for the mail. If I don't get it tomorrow, I will be away (I assume for the Jewish holidays) You can pick it up next week."

So I need to complete the divorce process:
1. 1/2 of the ever more shrinking retirement accounts to come.
2. Proof of insurance for the maintenance should Dow die before 10 years.
3. Access to photographs-one box which I could not lift from the storage unit.

I visited my Spiritual Director yesterday-1st time since the divorce.
She remarked on the difference of my energy "So positive" my posture, "You are standing tall" My smiles and my demeanor, all proof of the emotional and spiritual changes that have taken place in me over the last 3 years. Especially since the divorce was final during this last month.

I was even laughing as I told a friend about Jason's wedding on a Disney cruise October 31 2009
From what I was told by Lisa who talked to him.
Folks get on the boat Thursday or Friday.
They party-bachelor and bachelorette parties starting at Midnight.
The ship cruises to Nassau, everyone gets out to the sand, marriage ceremony takes 10 minutes
Then back to the boat to go to a Disney Island for the day.
Arrive FL next morning-I think Sunday.

I do not know if I will be invited.
I thought if I were to be invited; "I don't drink and I have never partied; what will I do?"
I will bring books to sit and read on the deck in the sun/shade.
Enjoy the outings.
Be a polite guest along with my ex-spouse. (Good to write that)
Wish and pray only the very best for two young people
who deserve only the very best in their lives.
Holding Jason and Jodi in my heart ever so tenderly.

I don't know what I will get them for their present whether I attend or not.
I have a year to "think on it."